How to Sneak Your Arm Around Your Date: 12 Steps (with Pictures)

Putting an arm around your date is a great way to break the touch barrier. Wait for a moment when you’re both feeling relaxed and having fun. If you notice your date leaning close to you, making lots of eye contact, and smiling a lot, they might be ready. If you’re sitting together, try the classic yawn-and-stretch maneuver. After you stretch your arms, slip one of them around your date’s shoulders instead of putting it back down at your side. Or, if they’re cold, put your jacket around their shoulders and then leave your arm there. You can also try something a little more playful—for example, say something like, “If you were a pirate, would your parrot sit on this shoulder, or this one?” If your date leans in and gets cozy, that’s great! But if they move away or act uncomfortable, move your arm and apologize. Don’t make a big deal out of it—just move on. To learn how to choose the perfect moment to sneak your arm around your date, read on!